Positive Vibes Only

If you have been reading these posts, you know that Doris Jean was the QUEEN of positivity.  I believe her faith kept her positive but she also had an innate sense of positivity that remained with her until she passed away. She could find the positive in any situation.

Now I would be lying to you if I told you that was me 100% of the time.  Although I strive to be positive, some days I fall short but it is not for lack of trying.  Being positive is a choice.  You have to choose it every single day.  I have gotten a lot better at seeing the good in almost every situation. When Doris Jean died I was angry.  I questioned why God would take her so early.  I have used that pain to relate to the grief others feel when they lose a parent because I can relate to how they are feeling and what they are going through.  That is a positive. 

Some people are just naturally negative.  Whether they are a product of poor parenting, have low self-esteem, have had poor communication throughout their lives or they just choose to live as if a storm cloud is above their head 24/7.  Recently I heard someone complain that they hate moving and they went on and on about it.  Mind you, they are moving into a brand-new home in a location that they have always wanted to live in.  That is a blessing!  I have seen people pray for something, get it, and then complain when they finally get it.  I can tell you that my spirit does not do well in those types of situations and I quickly remove myself.  

I think one of the most important things to me in my life at 50 years old is protecting my peace.  I understand that positive, healthy relationships are key to protecting my peace. I will definitely love you from a distance if my peace is compromised when I am around you.  I want to leave people feeling better than how I found them and vice versa. How can you maintain a positive mindset if you are around someone who steals your peace and joy every time you are around them.  If that is the case, it is time for a change. 

Change is inevitable in life.  Maintaining positivity through change can be difficult if you are not a positive thinker.  Try to focus on the positive and remind yourself that you have been through tough times before, you will do it again! This too shall pass! 

Scroll through your Facebook feed.  You will quickly see who looks on the bright side and who doesn't.  I actually feel sad for those I see complaining on a regular basis.  They are missing the joy that is LIFE. Life will not be sunshine and rainbows all of the time, feel those emotions when you are disappointed, hurt, sad, and heartbroken but don't live with them too long. Doris Jean would say, you must like it or you would do something about it. Those words would drive me insane!  Aren't they true?       

A few quotes I have read recently that I like:

PeacefulMindPeacefulLife - Do not allow negative people to turn you into one of them.

Moonsoul - I don't agree with the whole "I'm giving people the same energy they give me." I think you should give people your pure truest energy, the most real version of you and if they don't appreciate you then you can walk away.  Why would you lower yourself just because they are low?   

 PeacefulMindPeacefulLife - There is such a powerful energy in living a life that is free from seeking validation and permission from others.    

Be BOLD my friends!  Be positive in your way of moving through this world.  There is enough negativity out there. Start each day with a thankful heart, you control your day and not the other way around.  Be kind and remember that others are going through things we have no clue about. Protect your peace and do not feel guilty for setting boundaries for those who try to steal it. Being positive is intentional. Choose wisely!